A girl at work bought me this t-shirt for xmas/birthday and I have to say it is spot on!Well thanks to Maz I have been inspired to make a blog post…well that and the fact there is not much going on at work at the moment!
Well lets see where do I start……well I met a girl! I know it's amazing don’t ya think?! Lol
Well she worked with a very good friend on mine, and we started chatting on facebook and just the usual flirting she was asking my mate about me and yada yada yada. My mate knows certain thing about the game that I have mentioned to him, so it went from there.
I wasn’t too bothered with it all as it was facebook, and I was like bleh. She actually gave me her number because we were talking about skydiving and how I wanted to do it and it turned out so did she, as she is afraid of heights. That was when I started taking more note of what out convos. She was willing to go to such an extreme to overcome her fear, and to me that is an attractive quality. I told her this too.
The only routine I used the whole time talking to her was the question game, as I like the game and you can get into deep comfort with it and you learn some really interesting things about each other, the rest of the time we just talked and bantered about, but I am much more conscious of being straight up and to the point too and trying not to spend too much time bantering around, as that can be detrimental.
She likes the fact I am honest and upfront about everything, she knows she can be how she wants and I will never judge her for anything, she was very weary at first but the more time we spend to together the more open she becomes and the happier she becomes. I have set the president from the start I told her if she was to ever blatantly lie to me then we would be through and she said she expected the same, which is fair.
My approach game has gone to shit really, I have never been really after quick lays or ONS or anything of the sort, I just wanted to be able to meet some nice girls and have the skills to take the opportunities as they came………and that is exactly what I have done. I have become a much more attractive person in general………2 years in the making really. I have been at logger heads with myself, as I don’t want to lose these skills I have learnt, but I don’t feel compelled it be out all the time approaching women out of a sheer need to.
We spent a couple of nights in London, and we had a great time together, since she is scared of heights I took her up the London Eye, we went to Madam Tusaudes. She had been to Lush earlier on and bought this Citrus Bomb that you put in a warm bath and it relaxes you and smells all fruity…………and I kid you not she ran me a bath and put that in there and I have never been sooooo relaxed in my life, it was the bizz, she jumped in to for a bit too and then left me alone n made me a cup of tea….ah the good life….and don’t worry I thanked her for it ;-)
The way I see it what I have been doing for the last couple of years, has made me the person she finds soo attractive, she cant believe that a couple of years ago I was someone different. She likes how I am assertive and how I be persistent if I want something, but I know when to leave something be too.
My birthday is coming up..........so guys I expect nice presents! lol Work has been keeping me stupidly busy, I am on call most of xmas and new year...easy money and my goal is to get myself ready for my trip to China which I have just finally paid off yesterday!!! I still have to pay for my flights and apply for my visa but the bulk of it is done now! I showed Sunnee where I would be staying, with real life masters and everything....man talk about living the dream. I am am nervous but giddy at the same time.
I just got my Krav Maga t-shirt, I love it I am doing some MMA as well, just the basics, my fitness is improving and I now weigh 12stone...I used to way 10.5stone..so I am getting bigger! My cardio is still really crap even though I am pushing it more then I ever have, the guys at the gym say that I have naturally smaller lungs, as event hough I don't drink or smoke I have a lung age of a 55year old! (according to the machine), this doesn't mean I will always be crap at cardio...just means I have to work at it harder......
For the first time in ages, I am having trouble fitting stuff in, i work shifts, Krav Maga Mondays, Salsa Tuesdays, St John Wednesdays, MMA Thursdays, GF Fridays,
Saturdays I try and go out and Sunday is my Mandarin lesson, that is the busiest my life has ever been and I try to fit the gym in where I can, if I am on shift then I cant do certain things...but that is life.
I have come to realise relationship game is very different to appprach game, by a long way and I am better at the relationship side, because that is what I have always wanted a relationship...god that sounds chode, but that is what I have wanted. Without the the confidence gained from the approach game you can't really have the confidence in the relationship side, if it wasn't for all those approaches I have done over the years and all, I wouldn't be here now!
I have realised the way all us guys from the Leeds crew do things is way beyond how far most people would ever go to do something, because we are always on this mission we never really sit back and appreciate what we have done and where we have come from, for myself I am afraid of just being caught in that cycle
So I am looking back now and I said 2008 would be a good year for me, I got a new job with a new car and a iPhone and I have a gf who is spot on, god bless older women lol.
2009 shall be just as interesting!
If you have made it this far...please leave a comment telling me how you enjoyed it or how I just went off on one or whatever!
This is where I will be in China.........CHECK IT OUT!
God Bless and have a good Xmas and New Years people!
